December 2007
Reflections
The last Ladies that Lunch meeting of the year was an opportunity to unwind and reflect on the year nearly finished. Alongside their introductions I asked all of the attendees to answer one of a series of questions when they introduced themselves. The questions got them to think about what's happened for them in 2007.
Very often we move from one task to another without spending the time to look back at the experience and what we've got from it.
I encourage you to take five minutes and respond to the following questions:
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What's been your biggest achievement this year?
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What was your greatest challenge?
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What was the most fun you had?
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What have you learned about yourself?
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What one thing would make you more effective next year?
For all of us the responses were a mixture of business and personal - some had undertaken sporting challenges (such as marathons and rowing competitions), for others it was getting a business started, or taking it to the next level.
My year has been a real journey into who I am and what's been holding me back. I've learned that when I'm unsure about something, instead of asking for help I push other people away. Rather than working with people, I think I have to do it all myself. Now I know differently and I'm working hard to turn that around. What I'm experiencing is richer relationships with everyone around me and a great input of ideas and support. These insights have come about as a result of some remarkable personal development training with an organisation called Landmark Education. It's made a huge difference for me!
I wish all of you a happy festive season. May you spend the holidays with those that you love and enjoy all the celebrations. For 2008 I wish you health, happiness and prosperity!
Lesley Reader
Managing Director LTL and Emerging Potential
www.lesleyreader.co.uk